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7 Positive Tasks To Try This Week




Monday
focus; self-care
  • take a bath, do a skincare routine, listen to some relaxing music

Tuesday
focus; digital detox
  • take a day out from social media, have a no-screen-time night

Wednesday
focus; clean
  • tackle your junk draws
  • de-clutter and get rid of stuff you don't need
  • clean the draws you've been putting off doing

Thursday
focus; purge
  • unsubscribe from any junk emails
  • use unroll.me to complete the task

Friday
focus; donate
  • give away 5 things from your wardrobe you don't need anymore
  • donate to some of your clothes to charity

Saturday
focus; health
  • make a healthy dinner from scratch

Sunday
focus; energise
  • take a 20 minute walk, get some fresh air and reflex on the positives from your week



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10 Ways To Simplify Your Life

1. declutter
I myself, have definitely felt guilty of having too much mess and crap about. By reducing the amount of clutter we have in our houses we open ourselves to numerous benefits and hey, you might find things around your house you didn't even know existed because of the amount of excess junk you have around.

2. stop comparing yourself with others
With social media being at everyones fingertips, it's very hard to stop comparing yourself to others that you see online, for example if you have a relationship and you stumble upon a pretty girl on instagram, you might think and compare yourself to that girl, but that isn't a good thing to do, love yourself and be happy within yourself.

3. don't be afraid to say "no"
You don't have to say yes to everything, you should never feel pressured to do so, learn to stand your ground and say no to situations and things you don't want to do.

4. don't overplan
Sometimes a bit of spontaneity is good. It gives you a breath of fresh-air and you may end up having one of the best days of your entire life! Just trust it, you might enjoy it!

5. get inspired
Find something that you're passionate about, something that you love and get inspired by others that have the same hobbies and interests as you!

6. always carry a notebook or journal
Several reasons for this, one of them being you never know when you're going to find inspirations for a hobby or interest, another reason is if you have a shopping list you can cross of things as you buy them.

7. prepare your to-do list in the morning
If you know what you have to do during the day every-day you won't spend the most part of it wondering what you have to do during the day, it would also keep you motivated and busy during the day.

8. remove and minimise toxic relationships
Toxic relationships - whether they be friendships or lovers can be pretty toxic the sooner you realise some of the relationships you have are toxic, the better.

9. find the joy in small things
I think, it is easy to find every single reason to be sad and upset about a situation,but every cloud has a silver lining, so there can be a positive outlook to everything.

10. spend less time on social media
Everyone needs and deserves a break off social media now and again, just to refresh your mind and give it a break from some of the negativity that you might come across. A social media break is what everyone needs once in a while, it will you do you the whole world of good.

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Things You CAN Control



Although there are a-lot of things in life that you can't control, however, there are things you CAN control. Here is my list;
  1. your beliefs
  2. your attitude
  3. your thoughts
  4. your opinions
  5. your perspective
  6. who your friends are
  7. what books you read
  8. the type of food you eat
  9. how you spend/invest your money
  10. whether or not you judge peoplef
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25 Reasons To Stay Alive




There are so many beautiful reasons to stay alive; here are 25 of those reasons though I am sure, there's so many more reasons, even on your darkest of days, there's so many reasons to stay strong and carry on.


  1. To see a sunset
  2. Because you matter
  3. To listen to your favourite music
  4. To kiss someone like you mean it
  5. To experience a concert and sing at the top of your lungs
  6. So you can look in the mirror and think "wow I'm beautiful"
  7. Because you deserve to celebrate another birthday
  8. So you can smell the earth after a rainstorm
  9. To bake cookies with your friends
  10. So you can hug and be hugged
  11. To smell the blissful aromas of your favorite foods
  12. Because life itself is beautiful
  13. So you can overcome obstacles you never dreamed you would be able to tackle
  14. To stargaze and have nothing on your mind except the twinkling lights
  15. To fall in love
  16. To have a good cry and feel worlds better afterwards
  17. To laugh so hard that you can't breathe
  18. For your parents
  19. Because this world is beautiful, and you're a part of it for a reason
  20. your chest and you can't control the size of your grin
  21. To feel the squish of wet sand between your toes
  22. In order to explore the world
  23. To smell sweet, freshly-cut grass
  24. To see a full moon and wonder if there's other life out there somewhere
  25. To stay happy
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7 Important Life Lessons To Remind Ourselves Everyday



1. Personality is not set in stone.
You are able to take control or change it the way you like, do not have to listen to anyone that says personality has to be a certain way, you also do not have to change yourself for anyone.

2. Never leave your parents.
They are the reason you are here, and you know they will always be there for you when you need them.

3. Never get confused to select between love and friendship.
Both have their respective parts to play in your life, there is a significant difference between them both.

4. When in anger, isolate yourself
Give yourself some time to allow yourself to think about the situation with a calm mind. This also prevents you from saying something you don't really mean, which in-turn could be something that you regret.

5. People say "follow your heart" but not in every situation. 
Instead listen to your heart and act with your brain, it might save you in some situations.

6. Time heals almost everything.
Take some time and experience the changes that have happened post-the thing that happened, learn from your mistake and make sure the changes that are happening don't happen again.

7. Thoughts control your feelings.
Feelings control your actions, actions control your results. Positive thoughts = positive results.
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8 Things Shared By People With Much Life Experience



1. If you are unsatisfied with your situation, focus on the facts. you can either do something about it or accept it
You can change a situation if you really want too, only you are in charge of that.

2. Starting is the hardest point, be even if you fail you'll grow from just from trying
Once you start something, it does get easier, the hardest is starting because of failure and you don't want that to happen.

3. Judge people based on your interactions with them, not or what other people say
Learn about people from THEM rather than what YOU hear from OTHER people, some have different perceptions from what the person is ACTUALLY like.

4. Take responsibility for your mistakes. it's hard but people will respect you for being mature and honest.
If you own up to your mistakes, no matter how rubbish they may be, people will respect you because you're taking responsibility, as an adult that's one of the things you'll have to just suck up and do, no matter if you don't like it or if you do.

5. When you want something, don't settle for mediocrity, give it your all.
Do not just settle for the minimum, give everything your all and you're most likely going to get the same back, people will give you their best shot, if you do the same for them.

6. Obsessing over the past is the worst way to waste your time
Do not just obsess over something you can't change, the past is the past and it's the past for a reason, if you can't change it, then just forget about it, learn from your mistakes and make your future an even better place to look forward too.

7. Try to fix the problem before being pissed off at yourself, sometimes it's easy mistake and you won't have to kick yourself for making the mistake
8. make conversation with whoever you can and whenever you can. you can meet interesting people
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Tips For A Girl Boss Morning



1. Wake up early
2. Let in the daylight and fresh air
3. Do not check your phone
4. Burn some incense
5. Meditate
6. Rehydrate with hot lemon water
7. Listen to positive affirmations
8. stretch and practice some yoga
9. enjoy a bowl of delicious fresh fruit
10. cook a nutritious breakfast
11. morning skincare routine
12. give thanks, be patient and have a lovely day
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Harsh Life Lessons People Learn In Their 20's



1. Life doesn't get easier - you may, go through things that you wouldn't wish on your worst enimies - the point is just get through them - surround yourself with people who care about you and the situation will get a lot easier - even if life doesn't

2. Self love is always the most important thing - while you might like looking after others, it's just as important to look after yourself too - take some time out - remember this is okay, it's important to have self-care within your daily or weekly routine.

3. You might not figure everything out and it's okay - You may never figure everything out in life out, you may find that it takes longer to figure some things out than it does for others, that too is okay, life isn't a race, it's okay to pace yourself.

4. Relationships can be fragile but you'll learn how to choose better people - You may have a lot of relationships in your life before you finally find "the one". Try not to get too attached too quickly, because that's how your feelings can get hurt, learn that it's okay to have relationship after relationship, after all, that's how you learn right from wrong isn't it?

5. It's okay not to settle down so easily and early. The better is waiting for you - You may see your friends and everyone around you with a loving family, relationship and children, but life isn't all about that, take time to focus on yourself, find something you love to do, do that, when you settle down is up to you, not just because everyone else around you is doing that.

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How To Really Achieve Your Goals



1. Make sure your goals are specific
There's literally no point in trying to follow goals that aren't specific for example "new followers on twitter" is no good because that means you're always going to achieve those goals, you need one that are like "500 new followers on twitter", gives a specific number of how many more you want, even add a date to achieve it by.

2. Make sure your goals are measurable
Make sure you choose goals that are measureable, much like the first point, not being specific isn't any good, you need to make goals that are measureable for example a certain amount more followers by a certain date.

3. Identify the obstacles and think of the solutions before kick-starting
Identify problems and challenges that make get in the way of you achieving your goals, for example if it's new followers, you have the problem of the follow / unfollow game, to avoid this, make sure you only follow people who are of interest to you, post about relivant topics to do with your followers, for example if you are a book blogger, don't go posting about how much you love the Kardashians because although you might love them, it's not relevant to your followers, so they may just end up unfollowing you

4. Have a strategic plan
This is similar to point 5, make sure you have achievable goals, don't think of something ludicrous, I know there's always that thing where you can achieve it if you can dream it, but there's a line you cross. Make sure you have a plan of when  to achieve your goals by, make it realistic too. There's no point in wanting 500 new followers in 2 weeks because that's unlikely to happen unless you're really famous.

5. Break it down into small ones
Say if you wanted 400 new followers by the same date next month, that means it's 100 new followers every week and approximately 14 new followers everyday, give or take, this makes it easier to achieve.

6. Review your progress regularly and make turnings accordingly
Be proud of your progress, even if it's slow, slow progress is still progress, if you're not near your goal and the deadline is approaching, make tweaks, that's okay to do that, change it according to what you believe you can do.

7. Mark down every tiny achievement along the way
Tiny achievements are great to celebrate, for example, you might have had a large number of followers one day that you weren't expecting, that deserves a cake, don't you think? Small achievements, whatever they are always worth celebrated for.

8. Share your goals with someone else
Even share your goals with your social media followings, this might make your goals easier to reach because let's face it, the blogging community is the best when helping people achieve their goals, i love the blogging community all together but people really do put their feet out to help people and make them happy.
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It's Okay Not To Be Okay


Sometimes, it's difficult to express your feelings to someone and explain to them why you feel the way you do, it's okay not to be okay. It's okay to cry, you are human after all. It's okay to feel pain, everyone does, it's normal. It's okay to take longer to get over things than someone else might. Too many people put on a fake smile in order to keep people knowing how they are truly hurting. I’m here to tell you that it’s okay to not be okay sometimes. It’s okay to admit that you’re hurting, broken or even confused about your current spot in life. It’s okay.

  1. IT’S OKAY TO CRY
There is nothing wrong with crying and letting out a few tears. Who ever said crying is for babies was a liar, and definitely not ever watched The Notebook. There is nothing wrong with crying and letting out a few tears. Who ever said crying is for babies was a liar, and definitely not ever watched The Notebook.


  1. IT’S OKAY TO GET FRUSTRATED.
No one has the answers to everything, and even the smartest of people in the world find themselves frustrated sometimes. It’s ok to not know the answer, solution, or reason for things that have taken place. Don’t let anyone tell you it’s wrong to get frustrated. Sometimes frustration is the breeding ground of change.


  1. IT’S OKAY TO GET STRESSED.
Let’s face it, stress is unavoidable. I’m not saying it’s going to consume your entire life, but stress is one of those things that all of us will eventually encounter in one way or another. When you come into areas of your life that are considered stressful, realize that it’s only going to last as long as you allow it to. Stress is unavoidable, but allowing it to control your life is not. It’s ok to be stressed sometimes, just don’t let stress become who you are.

  1. IT’S OKAY TO NOT UNDERSTAND.
Not everything is going to have an answer, but that’s where the beauty of faith comes in. There are circumstances and events in your life that you aren’t going to understand, but you have to realize that it’s ok to not know all the answers. There is humility in saying “I don’t know.” And frankly, sometimes admitting that you don’t know is the first step in finding peace and comfort in your situation. Don’t let anyone tell you that it’s wrong to admit you don’t understand.


All of this is okay, you're human, it's understandable.


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What To Remember If You Want Lasting Love



1 - No one is perfect
Inevitable, but not obvious to some, people will make mistake, learn to forgive

2 - Never try to change a person
People are the way they are for a reason, they like the things they like for a reason, don't try to change them because chances are they won't want change

3 - Be with someone you don't need to impress
The best is being with someone you can be total comfortable with, yourself, you don't have to impress someone if they really like you
, they'll take you how you are

4. Be clear if it's love, or you're just lonely
Make your intentions, what you want and what you don't want totally clear to avoid any confusion over what they want or don't want, this will also avoid you getting too attached too quickly if they don't feel the same way as quick

5. Be with someone who can accept your shortcomings
Accept them, accept their flaws, as said in point 1, no one is perfect, people have imperfections, learn to love those little imperfections too.

6. Be with someone who motivates you but not discourage you
You need words of encouragement with what you do, this will help you move forward, achieve greater things because there's someone there that believes you can do such things.
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15 Ways To Simplify Your Life



I think we all wish life was a bit simpler, but don't worry, I got you! I have 15 ways to make your life simple, and to simplify your life especially if you're busy, a lot can get on top of you in a short amount of time!
  1. set monthly goals
  2. declutter your wardrobe
  3. follow a quick morning routine
  4. make your lunch the night before
  5. write a to-do list the night before
  6. quit opening so many tabs
  7. write down your spending habits
  8. follow a budget plan
  9. make itineraries for holidays and trips
  10. delete old emails
  11. unsubscribe from junk emails
  12. create a morning/evening routine you will ACTUALLY follow
  13. listen to audiobooks/podcasts
  14. carry a water bottle everywhere
  15. strict your spending habits
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20 Productive Things To Do Instead Of Spending Money





1. Do the laundry
2. Plan a family dinner party
3. Do a puzzle
4. Play board games with your family
5. Have a hot bubble bath
6. Learn something new from YouTube videos
7. Call a relative
8. Pack your lunch for tomorrow
9. Meditate
10. Follow a workout routine on a DVD
11. Go for a walk
12. Watch a documentary
13. Write in a journal
14. Start a new TV show
15. Watch a movie
16. Take a power nap
17. Write down things your grateful for
18. Make a vision board
19. Clean your house
20. Do a yoga exercise on YouTube

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11 Habits Of Successful Women



1 - take full responsibility for their life

2 - prioritise & do the most important tasks

3 - create their morning routine

4 - daily meditation or mindfulness practice

5 - make health and exercise a priority

6 - read & learn continuously

7 - discipline and self control

8 - consistency

9 - follow through with what they say (no excuses, only results)

10 - persistence & perseverance

11 - not afraid to fail


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10 Ways To Detach And Not Lose Your Mind




1. Don't give advice unless asked

2. leave the room if you can't be quiet

3. focus on yourself not what they "should be doing"

4. let them experience their own choices

5. stop focusing on their behaviour

6. remove the kids before it becomes unsafe.

7. don't nag them about their responsibilties

8. only help when asked

9. compliment what they ARE doing well

10. let yourself off the hook, it's not your problem
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15 Lists To Make When You Feel Down



I don't know about you but I love lists and everything about them, they're a great way to channel your emotions and set your mind somewhere else and not think about the things making you sad, here are 15 lists you can make when you feel down.

Your Dreams
  • Life goals
  • Countries you would like to visit
  • Things you would love to do
  • Stories you would like to write about

Your Favourite Things
  • Favourite songs
  • Funniest jokes
  • Favorite movies
  • Favourite TV shows
  • Favourite books

Your People

  • People you love
  • People loving you
  • How you met your favourite people
  • People you would like to meet
  • What you would like to do with your friends
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